Dates,
but unhinged.
Date ideas that actually fit you, or both of you. Ranked by chaos, budget, and hard limits. Then save the night as lore.
Free on iPhone: 3 classic lists a day · Chaos through Cursed · Sign in is optional
Chaos ladder
Mildly Suspicious1
Questionable2
Concerning3
Cursed4
Apocalyptic5
Forbidden6
Solo or together
Plan for one, or add a second person's limits on the same phone. Two phones is optional, not required.
Partner Mode
Create a code, they join in the same app. You answer separately. The same list appears on both phones.
Hard limits stay sacred
Diet, budget, energy, vibes, and the stuff you will not do. Soft limits get flagged. Hard limits never break.
Real nearby places
Add a location and we pin a closest venue for the idea: café, pottery, park. Not a random hospital.
Live the night
Do this, then escalate, stay, or take a soft landing. Add a note or photo when you finish an activity.
Aftermath & Lore
Rate how cursed it was. Seal the night. Notes and photos from either phone can land in Lore.
Free
£0
3 classic (curated) lists a day- Chaos through Cursed
- Solo + Partner Mode
- Skips, wildcards, favourites
Chaos Pass
£3.99/mo·£24.99/yr
- Unlimited classic lists
- Exclusive AI ladders (fair-use cap)
- Forbidden tier + extra packs
- One Pass covers both of you on a live date
Buy in the iPhone app. Cancel anytime in Apple ID subscriptions.
We enable questionable decisions.
We still want you both home in one piece.
Chaotic but never cruel. Hard limits never break. Easy exit always exists.
Let's cause problems